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Question for guys in college? what kind of underwear do most college guys wear? do you guys walk around dorm in just underwear? Is it normal to sleep naked in college?
Do guys jerk off together in dorms and/or jerk each other off or is that not normal?
thanks | No longer in college, but have high school & college friends and relatives.
I'd say that most guys wear boxers and/or boxer briefs just because that's what is best selling now among teens. But a fair number of guys still wear briefs. So just wear whatever is most comfortable.
It would depend on the dorm/college. Many have coed dorms. Some have guy/girl rooms on the same wing or guys and girls on different wings/different floors, and even those that are not coed usually have fairly open policies regarding opposite sex visitors.
So in any of those open situations, you are probably required to at least have shorts on. If it's an all-male dorm then anything goes. Just like high school, some guys are always going to be modest. But some guys will go between room and shower naked or in underwear.
In your room, that depends on what you and your roommate work out. IMO, a mature thing to do would be to sit down the first day or two and have a discussion about what you are both comfortable with in behavior. And not just about sex, but it should include that.
Living together in close quarters has the potential to be terrible, or to form a lifelong friendship. Even the best of roommates have some occasional issues, but don't hesitate to change roommates if it's not a good match.
Suggested topics: how do you feel about food in our room? alcohol? drugs including marijuana or other illegal substance in our room? what level of cleanliness are you comfortable with - dirty clothes on floor or in a hamper, do u take a shower every day, what about borrowing/sharing clothes, how often do you wash ur sheets, will there be a curfew for bed, will there be a 'quiet time' for studying, will friends be allowed in room if one or both of us is not here, will girls be allowed in room, will there be a signal or a text message if one of us needs the room for sex, how do you feel about nudity, is it ok to change in front of the other guy, hang out in the room naked, is it ok to masturbate in the open like on top of the covers or sitting in front of the computer or should it be only after lights out, can we agree that if we see something personal we don't talk about it to others, how about farting openly or burping
You could introduce the whole talk by saying how you've been looking forward to college and meeting new people, but are kind of nervous about having a roommate and hope you guys can become good friends, and 'to help us get off to a good start, I was hoping we could sit down and talk about what our expectations are in being roommates.
Regarding the jerking off, I've seen several guys here and on other sites talk about any number of arrangements. Some just kind of have an understanding and hear each other after lights out. Others have come in to a roommate watching porn and said 'can i watch' and then one says 'i gotta jerk off' and then they both do and sometimes that leads to jerking each other. I've even read of groups of guys getting together in a room to watch porn and jerk off.
Just like in junior high/high school, two guys doing it is going to be a lot more common than a group. As to how common it is, about 43% of men says they masturbated with other males (about half jerked each other off) as teens. Almost all grew up straight and most did it when younger, then sort of grew out of it in later teens.
If that's something you want to have more openness about, then when you talk with your roommate and get to the subject of masturbation, say something like, 'this next topic is really personal. it's kind of embarrassing but i guess we need to talk about it. it's masturbation. to be honest, i'm pretty open about it. i'm straight, but i used to jack off with friends so it really doesn't bother me if you see me or if i see you, but how do you feel about it?'
That's just a suggestion, you may have other ideas. But if it were me, I wouldn't want to spend 4+ years having to jack in the shower or even always under the covers. I guess if you have other questions, send a message to me. | College guys masturbating? ok so in a couple of years ill be going to college and i currently jerk off daily. so i need guys who are in college to answer this. what do you do when you jerk off? do you do it when your room mate isnt there? do it in the showers? of do you do it together? serious answers thanks | | It's best to calm your masturbation habit by having sex... which is very possible to do in college. | Jerking off with a married guy??? can someone please help me out here. i am a 35 year old bi curious guy. i have been with women before but as far as guys go in the last few years i have only jerked off with some of them. i met this dude online we exchanged pics chatted and he is 29 and married. but curiuous to jo with another guy. he said he did it in college and wants to try it again. we are spose to meet tomm.. and i am not sure what i should do. def am attrcacted to him and wouldnt mind jerking with him i actually prefer more str8 or curious str8 guys. maybe in my mind i feel that there is less risk of getting anything since they are only with their wives or gf. that is if they are bein truthful. so would it be wong to jerk off with this guy. nothing else just maybe jerking each other off? | | What if you were with a guy (lets say your married) and he needs his fix for women. Would you let a girl jerk him off, or him jerk himself off looking at her naked body? How would that make you feel, and how do you think his wife would feel? No matter what, if you don't touch him, it's still cheating. Does his wife even know he is bi? And apparently they are not being truthful with their wife or girlfriend if they are trying to get with you! Who knows what you can catch! If you don't know the guy, don't trust him! And I really hope you think about his wife's feelings before you do this. | What's the dating scene like in college? Does it get any better than it is in high school? From what I see, every guy at this age is immature. They don't want to commit. They lack interest, etc. I'm dealing with these issues right now. Are guys in college jerks? Do they blow girls off to do less important things? Please tell me it gets better. | | College students are exactly like high school students. There are a couple differences, though. For starts, college is a lot bigger in most cases so if you rub someone the wrong way they are easier to ignore. You also have to realize that this is an age where people can meet their husbands and wives. Nobody wants to die alone. But also remember that pop culture is the same, and alcohol is now more available. There are many who don't want to commit but take advantage of all the opportunities they can get while on school. It isn't easier to find a someone whom you care about, there are just more available. Understand? | College guys are so disrespectful to women? Most guys in college are inconsiderate jerks when it comes to women and relationships. They all seem immature and disrespectful. I thought that high school was bad, but at least in high school there was drama. And with that drama, if the couple was having too many problems, they split up. Here, for some reason, when the girls get mistreated, they don’t end the relationship. I don’t know if it is because they need the attention too badly, if they don’t think highly enough of themselves to know that they deserve better, or if they really have no idea what they want out of the relationship.
And then there are the girls who find a somewhat mature guy but he hasn’t learned to be respectful yet; he doesn’t give a **** about the girl. He uses her for his own comfort but doesn’t bother thinking about what she wants, deserves, or expects.
It is deeply bothering and depressing me and I feel like I ought to do something about it. I feel like I am the only gentleman on this campus under the age of 50. I feel like the Catcher in the Rye; like I ought to help the ladies that, for some reason aren’t or can’t do it themselves. I have no idea if I can do this and if I can, I don’t know how. I have taken small steps in that direction but am afraid that I will come off as a stocker instead of a concerned friend because it is really none of my business. But it is happening all around me and I feel like I ought to be helping.
In high school, I knew that I was more mature than most of my peers but coming here has amplified it a hundred fold. Am I the only gentleman attending college?Are all colleges like this? Is this how the rest of life is? When will they mature and be respectful; of themselves and of women? Should I step in? If so, how? | I know how you feel. I recently finished college and I felt like I was the only gentleman there myself. You have to remember that girls at that age tend to be attracted to jerks. If you see the type of guys girls are with they're the ones that us guys know will cheat on them in a heartbeat.
A lot of women as a rule won't bother to look at a guy that will be considerate to them. Best thing you could do is not be some sort of superman and rescue all these girls in trouble lol. These girls know what they're getting into when it comes to guys. They keep picking them. If they wanted a good guy they would be with them and we wouldn't be having this discussion.
You're NOT the only gentleman attending college. It's just that a lot of gentlemen are the ones who are single. You see the jerk guys the most because they make it a point to be noticed more and they're the ones most often with the girls.
I would say all colleges are like this. Each college has their population of gentlemen and jerks.
Life is like this.
Some guys never mature and will never be respectful of women. Women think they can change guys. That's false. You CAN'T change a guy.
Just be yourself and the right girl will come along. NEVER change who you are.
Cheers! | How to ward off obsessive guys? creepers? jerks? perverts? etc.? a guy, who is older than me by 7 years (he is 8 months older than my brother), had a 5 month old baby girl, he is a maintenance man, ex-wife cheated on him. and he lives 2 hours away. has decided based on an outdated myspace profile (i rarely get on myspace, mainly cause some friends never converted). I keep telling him in nothing special, I dont want a relationship of any kind. I want to graduate college maybe grad school, and start my career. I have told him Im bisexual, and he offered to make me straight, and then in the same conversation called me a whore, by assuming we could be friends with benefits. WRONG!!!! I have told him if i have urges i have my own way of fixing them without a man. he makes snide rude comments, asked about being friends with benefits AGAIN! I threatened to say something to which i he would crawl in to a hole and never think about speaking to me again. (I was gonna say,"if your this much of a jerk in real life, no wonder your wife cheated on you with your best friend) He disappeared off line before i could say it. probably a good thing. I have explained to him numerous times i dont want any kind of relationship. I dont want in anyway to be connected to a man so intimately at this time primarily because a full time job plus full time classes, plus extracurriculars is enough for me. What else can i do to tell him to get lost in a nice way. | | Be upfront, thats all. 'I'm not interested, stop calling me and talking to me, I don't want to be friends.' You're engaging with him, and in weird guys/girls' minds this translates as "oh you're interested, even though you say you aren't". Weird people translate things strangely so you have to be obvious and upfront, not rude, but firm. | GUYS: Where are the strangest places you have ever masturbated? When I first started masturbating at age 12, I would masturbate whenever the feeling arose which was quite often. Until I was out of college I would jerk off in a lot of random and strange places like fitting rooms, tanning beds, locker room stalls, my car, rest areas, behind stores and several other places. Where are some strange places you have masturbated? | In the woods (as a guy)
At school (as a guy)
At a sleepover in my friend's bed while he was asleep (Yeah we slept in the same bed. What of it?) (as a guy)
At work (as an adult)
At the hospital (as a guy and adult)
On the bus under a sweatshirt (as a guy and adult)
Back allies (as a guy and adult)
While driving (as an adult)
On the beach (as a guy)
Behind my mom in the back seat on trips (as a guy)
Water jets in swimming pools (as a guy)
On the roof (as an adult)
Under blanket while watching movies at a friend's house (as a guy)
Standing in line at McDonald's (loose pants with huge pockets) (as an adult)
At church (as a guy)
At a funeral (as a guy)
At weddings (as a guy)
In the examining room while waiting for the doctor (as a guy)
In the tunnel slide at recess (as a guy)
It seems my wild and crazy days are mostly behind me. Damn. | Is this normal for guys after a match? my bf plays football at college and said that in the showers afterwards it is quite common for the guys to jerk off to relieve the tension and get the feel good factor....... | | not uncommon, a quick w@nk is always useful and does relieve stress | Have you ever seen the show Blue Mountain State? This show called Blue Mountain State is awesome, I've been watching since the first episode. It makes me laugh so hard, because these college guys get into the most ridiculous things and it's just awesome. It's what every guy wishes his life was like. Alex and Sammy make an awesome team. Sammy is my favorite character, because in every other show he would be a loser. But in this show he is pure awesome. All of his schemes that he comes up with are the best and usually end the episode with me on the floor.
His latest one was when he through this bottle behind him and it almost hit this big dude. He was about to fight Sammy but he said he would jerk him off. And everybody started chanting it while the guy stood there and didn't know what to do. It worked and the guy left him, I'm using that tactic in real life. Later in the episode Craig asked him what he would do if a guy just whipped it out. He said he would just probably jerk them off, because he's not a fighter. Haha I wouldn't jerk a guy off but it was funny.
This really isn't a show for most girls, they would probably think it's disgusting. But I don't care it's awesome and if you like it and you're a girl then you're awesome. Check this show out and if you've seen it what do you think about it? | | hahahaha dude im watching the jerk off one again right now from spike. lmao i watch it EVERY Tuesday. its such a sick show but do you think hes ganna get with that band chick | How to attract the right kind of guy in college? (Nice guys, I need your help!)? Okay, I told myself I'd never do this, but here I am... S&D for the first time, lol.
I'm going to college in September. I've never been to post-secondary (took two years off after high school to decide on a major) and I will not know anyone at my campus.
There's a part of me that's hoping I'll meet my dream guy in the next couple years at college. I have a pretty small dating record - I've had three boyfriends, all of which I've dated for more than a year and two of which I dated for two years plus. I'm currently with my third boyfriend, and though I love him, I'm not sure he's the right guy for me. He's told me if I feel like exploring my options in college to just give him fair warning, which I thought was admirable... and based on who I meet, I might do just that.
Anyways. Is there anything specific that would attract the good guys? Obviously I don't want to date players or jerks. I know dressing slutty will only attract the wrong ones. I'm looking for personality traits that you nice guys are attracted to, or the ones that repulse you.
Basically, if I meet a guy I'm interested in, what can I do to peak his interest in me, and what should I avoid if I don't want to scare him off?
Any suggestions are helpful. Thank you! | | You should be really involved when you get to college. Join a club (my college as almost 8,000 organizations) that fits your interest. You already know you have something in common! Also try to be really sociable during your classes. Talk to the guy next to you! You can always ask to study together. I find that guys who show up to class and actually pay attention turn out to be really great guys. |
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